Friday, December 28, 2007
Carly's homecoming
My family and I would sincerely like to thank each and every one of you who prayed for her, visited her, called, sent cards/flowers, brought food, helped my parents... there was such an incredible outpouring of love and support. I am truly overwhelmed!
I guess I'd better rejoin the festivities. This holiday season I feel SO BLESSED!
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Day 13 in the hospital
Her past few days have had their ups and downs, thankfully more ups than downs. For physical therapy she goes on long walks around the floor. She has to lug her IV pole around but other than that she is tube free! Pain is still an issue for her, but I think she is becoming more tolerant of it. Food is being reintroduced slowly, for the second time. The first attempts to start her back on food were thwarted by a paralytic ileus (intestines not being quite ready for food) Now she is finally having a bit of an appetite returning and has progressed from clear liquids to liquids, to bland soft food, to bland food.
Her CT scans and x-rays are showing that there is still fluid surrounding the healing kidney. If you are looking for specifics to pray for, please pray that the body quickly reabsorb this fluid. The urologist had scheduled surgery to drain this fluid this morning, but canceled it since she is showing improvement in her activity and appetite.
I am a little hesitant to mention this b/c whenever we have good news, a setback sometimes follows- There is talk of maybe her going home this week. This is what I am also praying for! She has been such a trooper, but she is SO tired of being in the hospital. It would be nice to have everyone home so we can be all together as a family and finally have our Christmas, even if it is a little late.
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Progress
Friday, December 21, 2007
late on updating
It does seems as if she is doing better- the setbacks are thought to have been reactions to one or some of the medications she was on and is no longer taking. Over the last day and a half, she has shown signs of improvement. There was a procedure scheduled for this morning that was cancelled after the Dr's agreed it wasn't necessary. Our Aunt Sharon stayed the night with her last night (that was so sweet of you Sharon!) and I heard that Carly has been getting rest! She does need to increase her activity, and she is working with physical therapy to do just that. There is talk of taking her NG tube out maybe tomorrow evening(??) and then she would begin slowly reintroducing foods starting with clear liquids. Being this close to Christmas the beloved trauma surgeon will be going out of town, but he said that Carly may be out of the hospital by the time he returns on Thursday. I am hoping this might happen, but if I have learned anything by this experience, I have learned to expect the unexpected.
Please, AGAIN, continue to pray for forward progress and for no more setbacks.
An update on us (Paul, Ashlyn, Benjamin, and myself) we are back in San Antonio trying to stay in the loop with all that's going on in Austin. This is my first update without first-hand info. Paul had to work today and has a dinner for one of his Dr's tonight that I am supposed to go to with him. I am realizing just how close to Christmas we are now... and how far behind I am! AAAHH!
Thursday, December 20, 2007
setbacks
I may have turned into an optimist too soon. Sorry that I am so delayed in getting an update with yesterday's (Wednesday's) info. Tues night, Carly was having visual hallucinations- seeing bubbles and fuzzy yellow and pink things. She started having fever again 102.7; also early early Wed morning her medication that she receives through her epidural RAN OUT and the nurses took a VERY long time (not completely their fault) to get the new one running. Carly was in a great deal of pain from that point on. It wasn't until 3:00 in the afternoon when the anesthesiologist came that the pain became more manageable. The thought was that either she was reacting to a medication or something was going wrong internally. SO a chest xray, CT scan, blood work, all sorts of tests were ordered in addition to discontinuing some of the medicines. So far, nothing has come back as abnormal, the CT scan actually showed some improvement in her kidney (hallelujah!). The numerous IV's that she has had in her hands and arms have not lasted very long, and so the Dr's wanted to place a PICC line- a more permanent and sturdy IV line but had trouble placing that as well. Things that should be routine are proving to be difficult, and this has been most frustrating to ME. Anyway, finally late yesterday Carly went to the OR and the trauma surgeon (we are making him earn his pay!) placed a central line. Please pray that NOTHING go wrong with this! She should be able to receive all her fluids, TPN, and IV medications through this. The best part is that you can draw blood from this line so hopefully Carly won't have to be poked any more.
All of this is wearing on Carly emotionally- she is so tired of being in the hospital, and feeling "tortured". There were many tears shed yesterday as Wed proved to be a difficult day. It seems that many of her issues yesterday MAY be related to a reaction to some medication she was on- the ones in question from my knowledge are Fentanyl and Gentamycin (I think that's what I heard... now I am not so certain).
Okay, I was trying to do a short update and I feel like I keep coming up with more to write, and I am sure that I am leaving things out too. I need some comic relief... so I will leave you with this Christmas themed video from a couple of weeks ago (I think it is going to have to post in another message).
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Tuesday's been a good day
She got out of bed with the assistance of 3 nurses and sat in a chair for half an hour. This evening Carly was transferred to a regular room. She has a "salem sump"- a tube in her nose that is removing her stomach contents, at least 2 IVs in her arms one of which is feeding her (TPN) since she cannot eat or drink ANYthing, she still has the epidural that seems to be doing a good job of controlling her pain, and she still has her catheter of course. I think those are all the tubes she has today. Sorry if that is TMI, but I did that more for myself to take inventory.
My family has felt the prayers you have been offering up on our account, we feel blessed and are so happy to report that Carly is making progress. We are still in the middle of this mess however and continue to solicit your prayers.
Monday, December 17, 2007
Monday's update
Another Carly update
I could write a lot about the details, but it is very late/or very early- so to sum it all up, Carly is now in the ICU at the Dell Children's Hospital. I am sure that she needs to get rest, however I am eager to get to the hospital myself and annoy the staff and hopefully get some of my questions answered. It is a blessing for our family that everyone is back in Austin- praise God! Thank you again for your continued support.
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Carly update
Please keep praying, I personally don't feel like I know enough about her current condition to be giving any sort of update, things are still fairly unknown right now. I believe that my Dad and brother Ryan may be heading up there soon both to be there for Carly and to give my Mom a little break. Maybe I can give a better update later...
I have appreciated your responses- prayers, thoughts, phone calls. As I asked before, please continue to pray for healing for my sweet little sister.
Saturday, December 15, 2007
Emergent prayer request
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
Monday, December 10, 2007
6 months old!!

Now this could be in a separate post, but I will go ahead and include the picture the kids took with Santa:

Ashlyn was so excited to go see him... that is until we got there. She did agree to sit in his lap for the picture, but she was so stiff and awkward the whole time. As you can see in the photo, she kept her shoulders squared so she could keep Santa out of view. As more pictures were taken, she kept slumping over farther and farther. We went with our friends Carie and Colten who did their photo after us. Once their turn was over, Ashlyn mustered up the courage to walk over to Santa again, to tell him that she wants a "princess bike" but kept back a safe distance.
Later she told me with great disappointment, "Mommy, I used my manners and asked Santa for a princess bike, but he didn't give me one!" I felt a little guilty that had neglected to properly explain how a visit to see Santa works. By the way, this is the very first year we've gotten a picture with Santa with a smile instead of tears.
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
Paul's 30th birthday
Thank you to my dear friend Carie who did all the work to put this video together for Paul's party. I know it is late, but better late than never!
Happy birthday Paul, I love you so much!
Monday, November 26, 2007
Making up for lost time with pictures

Ashlyn and PaytonIn other news: Benjamin is on the verge of crawling! I thought this wouldn't happen for at least another month or so, this is much earlier than Ashlyn started. He pops himself up on all 4s and rocks back and forth until he suddenly (and violently I might add) dives forward. He uses this tactic to make it quickly across a room- it is funny to watch!

Sunday, November 25, 2007
My hiatus
For now I am going to beg of you some patience while I get my life (and house, what a mess!) in better order and I will leave you with the promise of a couple of more substantial blogs to come. I just wanted to give you a quick post for now so that you won't think that I have quit blogging altogether!
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
Sick of sick
Nebulizer treatments
In the ER (notice how fun this is for Ashlyn)
The hospital we went to was the new Dell Children's Hospital which is really nice. My dad did a wonderful job of keeping Ashlyn occupied; since it was a children's hospital there was plenty of fun things to do, just not in the patient rooms.
So we made it back to my parents house just in time for the UT game- which was looking bad for Texas until I dressed Benjamin in his burnt orange. Once he was properly dressed the Longhorns started to play better and eventually won the game! Sunday came and Benjamin still had a fever, so he and I didn't go to church. I did however dress him in his Sunday clothes so my mom could get a picture of the kids on their front porch.
Even through all this... Benjamin can smile!
One more mention of health concerns: you may notice how tiny Benjamin is. He is now 5 months old and he has not gained any weight at all this entire month! We go back to the GI Dr tomorrow. I am feeling so helpless about this, all I know to do at this point is PRAY.
Sunday, October 28, 2007
Superman & a Honey Bee




We started off the week with a slow start. We stayed home for a few days hoping to not get anyone else sick and trying to keep our kids from catching anything else to make them sicker. By Thursday, Ashlyn was feeling well enough to give herself a haircut. I asked her to get me a comb to brush her hair after her bath... she comes walking into the living room without a comb, but instead with a look of great pride on her face. I immediately asked "what did you do?" to which she replied proudly, "I cut my hair." I turned her around and pulled a handful of hair from the back of her head and then ran into the bathroom to find even more in the sink. (I think she must have just cut layers b/c once I brushed it out you couldn't really tell she had taken scissors to her hair.) Still, I got upset with her for this; she cried and cried and cried and said she would never cut her hair again. I hope so, but we'll see!Friday, she and I went to the dentist for her first dentist appt. We meant to have done this much earlier in her second year, but just now got around to it. I went first do she could see what to expect. When her turn came she did so well!

Here is a picture from tonight. These are the kids from our life group. It was such a challenge to get them to all look in the same direction at the same time- forget about trying to get them all to smile too!
Monday, October 22, 2007
ACU Homecoming
Saturday night was the Class of 2002 Reunion Dinner at the Beehive. We had fun catching up with everyone there too.
I have to include this one of Kristin, Benjamin, and Leigh Ann. Leigh Ann held every baby there, and I overheard her telling someone that she was trying to see how many blogs she could be in. Since I have mentioned that, I should also mention that the theme of most every conversation was the "Blog." Maybe it was just me but all I said or heard was either, "I read your blog," "we don't really need to talk b/c I am all caught up with you from your blog," or "you really should start a blog!" So hopefully I will have some new blogs to read soon...While we were leaving the dinner, Paul's parents called to tell us that Ashlyn had been throwing up! So we rushed back to care for her. That night she slept great, but she kept coughing which is what she would do before she threw up, so I hardly slept at all. Sunday I felt nauseated all day, in part due to being in the car, but I did have a fever yesterday. Benjamin was acting like he felt a little sick too on the drive home, leading us to stop way too many times on the drive home. I hate that the weekend ended with all this sickness, but even so- the weekend was a BLAST!!
Saturday, October 13, 2007
Love Creek Orchard
We went with Paul's family and everyone had a good time! The weather was great- mid 80's with a breeze, and there weren't nearly as many people there compared to when we went last year. I am not a fan of big crowds. However, here is a cute crowd that I am a fan of!
This is Benjamin on the hayride, not that you can tell that's where he is. He was awake, alert, and friendly the whole time. Ashlyn's favorite part was the pony rides. They handed out business cards after the ride and Ashlyn wanted to carry it around with her the whole time. I think she though it was proof of having ridden a horse.
By the way, I appreciate all the comments, suggestions, and concerns for me in response to my last blog. We still have no luck with bottles, but not for lack of trying! Benjamin seems to spit up a little less everyday, and he is starting to want to eat more at a time, so YEA!! I just pray that we continue to make progress.
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Here is the news...
I have such a mixture of emotions- I grew up there, my family is there, and we already know people there. However, after living in San Antonio for 7 years (even longer for Paul) we have made some really good friends here and have been involved in our church in many different aspects. Paul's family is here and my mother-in-law in particular has been such a huge help with the kids not to mention that there are plenty of cousins and aunts to play with. Thankfully San Antonio and Austin are about as close as two big cities can be and we will hopefully be able to visit San Antonio as much or more than we have been able to visit Austin. Again, I am excited about moving... but yesterday at Ladies Bible Class I was reminded of many reasons that I will be disappointed to move. I am not much of a crier, but I had a moment yesterday (sorry Sarah!) Besides that I am overwhelmed with all I need to do to get our house on the market, sell the house, look for and buy a new house, and move all our stuff. See even now I sound like a bipolar person, going back and forth between the pros and the cons. I am still trying to wrap my mind around it all and come to grips with the reality of this. There is no set move date, but closer to the beginning of the year we should get approval from Paul's company for the financial assistance to move.
A little mini-update on Benjamin, he seems to be doing well. I think the spitting up is a little less, maybe? We are really supposed to be pushing the cereal to add calories, and are having some trouble getting him to eat as much as the Dr.s are recommending. It just seems like a lot of food for someone so tiny. Hopefully I can write again soon that he is putting on weight, as for now it will still be something I'll worry about. Just to throw this out there- we cannot seem to get Benjamin to take a bottle, any suggestions?
Saturday, October 6, 2007
And here we are in October
Benjamin's health issues have also been of concern recently. I don't know if I have ever blogged about his reflux- well it has gotten concerning enough that the pediatrician referred us to a GI doctor. He spits up constantly, I always have several burp cloths with me and I do at least one load of his laundry (spit-up soaked clothing, blankets, burp cloths, plush toys) everyday, not to mention all of our clothes that get soaked too. Much more serious than my laundry complaints is the weight gain issue. He is gaining weight but not nearly as much as he should be. All the regurgitating is preventing him from getting adequate volumes of feedings. I could write so much more about all the struggles we have had with this, but to sum it all up we are now seeing the specialist. Benjamin had to have an Upper GI series done on Friday morning. I was prepared for the worst, as in a fussy baby since he couldn't eat, a long wait in the waiting room, a difficult time getting him to swallow the barium b/c it is gross and he doesn't take a bottle very well, and anything else that could go wrong. Thankfully none of those things happened- he cried for 5 minutes that morning to tell me he was hungry and then stopped, we waited for about 3 minutes in the waiting room, and he swallowed the barium like a champ! The technicians kept praising him for how he handled himself better than the adults do. We will go over the results of the upper GI with the Dr at our follow up appt.
And I do have some other news, but I'll have to post about that later... (I am NOT pregnant so don't even go there!) For now I will leave you with a few photos from the last week.


I can't tell if he likes it or not.
Monday, September 24, 2007
September is flying by
I have recently come to know that there are several people, mostly family but not all, who regularly read my blog that I was unaware of. I have not been writing as if you were a part of my target audience, b/c I didn't know you were audience at all. So in honor of all of you "silent" readers, I am going to include more pictures than usual.
This one is from July (see, I am way, way behind)

I mentioned before that August was a busy birthday month... well so is September. Paul's cousin Taylor, my aunt Laura, my uncles Clark and Sean, my brother Eric, and my Dad all have September birthdays. (Hope I didn't forget anyone...) So we have been doing a lot of birthday celebrating this month too.
This is from Taylor's family party. Since he got a new bike for his birthday, he wanted all the kids to ride bikes together- they were happy to comply.
Payton and Ashlyn wanted to try on Taylor's new helmet, and I really liked the pictures I got of each of them. They are so close in age that they tend to always do the same things...
Ashlyn thinks she is ready for a Big girl bike. How about putting the helmet on now?!
Here are a few random pictures.Random sibling picture-